You have just started your marriage life and everything seems so perfect. The honey moon phase is still on and you are still getting used to the fact of letting your dear husband into your space. Then all over sudden your dressing code starts to be a bother to his friends/family who never seemed to bother when you were dating.Infact they used to applaud you, some even suggesting you recommend your stylist to them. But now, out of the blues,you start receiving free advise on how a married woman is supposed to dress.You are left wondering whether your marriage certificate was meant to alter your sense of fashion as well.
I am one person who advocates for “if your husband is okay with it, then others are can think and say want they want.” After all isn’t he the one who has to put up with you like forever? Therefore it’s only fair that ONLY he gets entitled to a considerable opinion.Others can make all the noise they want.Let them deal with their own insecurities…yeah insecurities. Otherwise what would make someone chew your gum?? The two of you are already crowding each others space, so if you allow in a third party, it will be a battle field and you definitely don’t want that.
Don’t you think that skirt is slightly short?You should purchase more of long sleeved tops…That dress is too body hugging…Those high heels will break your back… Don’t you think that colour is too shouting? You should wear a blazer over that chiffon top.The colour of that lipstick doesn’t speak well of you….
Helloooo… For crying out loud it’s just above the kneels…And that dress is just fitting…My husband got it for me on our honey moon. I am comfortable wearing that… I loove heels and I am not complaining. That back is mine, don’t you think I will be the first one to feel any form of discomfort?.And that lipstick is my favourite colour! I have been wearing it for ages..
Girl,you don’t have to explain yourself. It’s time you accept that you cannot please everyone. No matter how hard you try, they will always dig up some fault. So just relax and enjoy being you. They will have to put up with it and hopefully,come to understand you are YOU and well, they are THEM!!Dress up,rock those heels and let people respect and appreciate you for who you are. Be sexy to your man, you two have a lifetime to spend..you don’t want to be boring so soon😉